From Cot to Toddler Bed (Making the Big Kid Transition Fun, Safe & Stress-Free)
- Jessie Maris
- 7 days ago
- 3 min read
Moving from a cot to a big bed is a milestone worth celebrating—but for many toddlers (and let’s be honest, parents too!), it can feel like a big deal. This shift signals growing independence, and with the right support, it can be smooth, empowering, and even exciting.
Here are some strategies to help your little one make the move with confidence and joy plus a round-up of the cutest big kid beds you can find in Aussie stores.
Tips for a Smooth Toddler Bed Transition
1. Talk About the Change Ahead of Time
Involve your child in the process early. Use simple language like, “You’re getting so big soon you’ll have your very own big kid bed.”
2. Validate Their Feelings
It’s normal for children to feel unsure or even upset. Acknowledge it: “It’s okay to feel a bit nervous about sleeping in a new bed. I’ll help you get used to it”. Using emotion coaching language helps children feel seen and builds their emotional literacy.
3. Keep the Routine Familiar
Stick closely to your existing bedtime routine (bath, stories, lullaby, cuddle). Familiar routines create safety. If you're moving the bed into a new room, try starting naps there first or playing in the new space during the day.
4. Add Comfort Cues
Let them bring their sleep buddies, blankets, or pillows from the cot into the new bed. These familiar sensory cues act as soothing anchors. You can even use a toddler-weighted blanket for extra comfort.
5. Use Positive Reinforcement
Celebrate small wins:
“Wow! You stayed in your bed all night”.
“I love how brave you were hopping into your new bed”. You can even use a sticker chart if they love visual praise systems.
6. Offer Choices
Let them choose their bedding, a bed frame, or even which bedtime story they want for their “first big bed night.” Giving them autonomy builds confidence and buy-in.
7. Safety First
Make sure the new bed is low to the ground or has guard rails. Consider placing a soft mat or rug on the floor just in case. And yes, baby-proofing still matters even for big kids.
Cutest Toddler & First Big Beds in Aussie Stores
Fantastic Furniture – Cubby House Single Bed – $599
A playful house-shaped bed. Great for imaginative little ones.
IKEA – MINNEN Extendable Bed Frame – $209
A classic metal frame that grows with your child. Pretty, practical, and perfect for shared rooms.
Mocka – Finn Kids House Bed – $199
A low-profile house frame bed that’s Montessori-aligned and super cute.
Temple & Webster – Luther Kids House Bed Frame – from $299
Scandi-inspired and clean-lined, this one is stylish and space-savvy.
Boori – Neat Single Bed $359
A premium choice with minimalist charm. Designed to last well into the teen years, this solid timber bed is worth the investment.
You can do this!
Transitions are all about connection, safety, and support. With a bit of prep and a whole lot of patience, your little one will soon be snoozing happily in their brand-new bed dreaming big, because they feel secure and seen.
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